Before · During · After
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Before
Give each child a little one-on-one time with you, even 10 minutes. Special toys can be put away when a friend or sibling comes over.
- 2
During
Safety first: separate them calmly. Name both: "You wanted the car. You did too." The rule is the same for both.
- 3
After
Don't compare ("Your brother doesn't do that"). Help them repair: "Let's check if he's OK."