Before · During · After
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Before
Decide when the screen happens and for how long before you turn it on. Use the ending signal (the alarm rings, the screen goes off) so the timer decides, not you.
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During
5-minute heads-up, then "The episode is over." Turn it off and offer the next activity, already set up. Crying: five steps, without turning it back on.
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After
Try not to use the phone to stop a tantrum. It works in the moment and teaches that crying brings the screen.